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However when she got involved in the EA and felt she had to do something she dropped the bomb in a way where I HAD to get it - sent the kids away for the weekend and sat me down.

Funny what people can decide to do, when they're motivated. I suspect that if she had sent the kids away for the weekend, and sat you down, and said something like "I've tried to talk to you before, but you haven't taken me seriously, and now I don't like how I'm beginning to feel about other men. If we don't get some marriage counseling -- now -- I don't know if I can remain faithful to you, and that's not who I am. We need professional help, and you need to listen to me this time!"

. . . I'm guessing you would have heard her.

LOL. Damn right. It's something I wish she'd have done. She is the type of woman who I felt had no chance, zero, NONE of being unfaithful. She's experienced it in dating prior to our marriage and was crushed by it.