On another note, she sometimes initiates the things that the Retro weekend promotes, like daily dialogue, so I can't fault her for making no effort. She IS trying, and says she's cut way back on the communication with the OM. She also has noticed changes in me but is worried about their permanence. She has asked for and appreciates my patience.

I know our kids have a lot to do with her efforts. She loves them and is pretty sure/afraid they'd be living with me if we did divorce.


WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09