Of everything, I think it comes down to these two paragraphs that you wrote:
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We have a great family, and even though we're struggling now I really believe it's worth fighting for. Even if we just end up where we are, on the brink of divorce, I think it deserves our best shot. What do you think?
I'm here to say that I will do whatever it takes, regardless of where it leads. And I'm asking you: Can you do the same? For the sake of the kids, for the sake of everything we were? I've come to a place of acceptance, and I'm open to the possibility that, at the end of the day, we'll still wind up in divorce court. Can you open yourself to the possibility of the opposite outcome and commit to finding out which of those outcomes we get?
It's my D@mn Engineering training - always too direct, structured, orderly - can't get to the point because the details get in the way...
Last edited by Thinker; 07/16/0906:18 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.