Had a blow up last night. She was mad that I wouldn't stand up for her, I pointed out that if you want things from me, I need things from you. Your choice, if your not in this with me, your in this alone. I told her I will help her build a resume, so she can get a decent paying job and a place of her own. The only way we will solve anything at this point IMO is if she can miss me and the life I have given her. I had a pretty good coaching session this morning, and I learned a lot about the person W has become after her blow up last night.