Good Morning Optimist. Wow. I wouldn't expose your daughter to the XOW after reading your story - ouch. Sorry. I do not believe in putting kids in the middle of the sitch, but this isn't between you and your H - it is to send loud and clear messages to XOW that she is not a welcome presence in your lives. So that leaves getting a picture of you and your daughter taken for his office - "his girls" as he calls you. I agree to being patient about getting XOW out of picture - when the time is right an opportunity will present itself to discuss it further with your H. The good Lord is watching and has a plan - we just need to be patient while the plan unfolds. That is what keeps me going on my end.

Hang in there

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