Ya know Flynn, that's one thing I've thought recently. As much as I'd kill to hear her say it, it's a process she has to work through.

I've been keeping up on a thread on a different board (you know which one Flynn) and there's a discussion about how much more difficult it is for a marriage to be saved when it's a woman that is in a romantic affair. Most responses to that thread are that it takes a woman a LONG time to get over those feelings for OM because she was sure she was "in love with her soulmate". And even if she understands OM was just using her, they're still powerful feelings and it just is going to take time.

If it takes her more time, as things are going now, I can give her that time.

And to answer your question, she's been an IM'ing fool today, joking, talking about grilling tonight, stuff about the kids, our upcoming vacation. it's almost annoying......but I'll take it crazy


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.