FLTC,

I may have missed something, but your STBXW committed adultery, right? So how is your STBXW is even eligible for spousal support? In a several states, even no-fault ones, infidelity disqualifies one from alimony.

(My xW at first started making noises about seeking alimony as well as child support, and my atty. just started laughing. That got dropped real quick.)

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.