Let me get this right....you have been married 16 years, together 20, you are 42, he is 41 and the BIG V -- Had you thinking now you wont have kids with him????? I was just wondering did you think you were going to still have kids had this MLC Bomb never hit? I am more just wondering if he has been the type of guy that said ...you know not now but we can think about it later....and you kept waiting or was it just that you are now just looking at the finality if this means no kids with him???
He does not want kids and has made that decision and did not include you.......maybe its alwasy been that way????
While I dont believe in D and it should be avoided at all costs...when there are no kids.....looking back dont be worried about the divorce..yes its hell...but with no kids...its only u two and at least their are no kids to get devasted and tossed back and forth, or worse abandoned my one.....
