Hi Gyps! Hope all is as well as it can be for you. I'm thinking this whole dealio is going to go to a trial. The mediator suggested a figure that was a full $1700 less than what she is getting now. I got some bad advice from my attorney, but he is deposing STBX and Smarmster in August. Let the games begin.
I'm not sure how someone can be so "tone deaf" as my STBXW. She:
1. Has an affair with her still married, wedding ring wearing, living at home with his wife boss while I'm in Iraq. He's a partner in the law firm that she is the office manager for!
2. Lets him buy D17 a Jeep, then asks for my military ID so that she can get a Veteran's discount on the Jeep.
3. Allows him to buy her a new car.
4. Allows him to pay to renovate the basement to my house.
5. Takes $11,000/month from me in Iraq, including hazardous duty pay, and puts it into an account where I can't get it. ( I KKNNOWWWWW....my fault!)
6. Asks for 6K more in college tuition.
Does she really want to be on the stand and tell about all of this? Does she want her Smarmyparamourboss to be on the stand, and then try to get lifetime alimony??????