On scratching the itch I saw you post earlier?? Still a bad idea. Let me tell you why.
Woman in question and man in question may only think that they are "scratching an itch" and know what they are getting into. That's far from true usually. The issue is that you have not had your emotional needs met in a long time by your wife (not sure what their sitch is) and anyone that meets those emotional needs- and surely the most important ones (sex) you will most likely think you're falling in love with. The same chemical reaction that happens to the wayward spouse will probably happen to you.
Many women would say whatever to get a good catch when in reality they are hoping that person will fall in love with them. Not saying that's with every women just some. And, I'd question anyone who told me right off the bat "I've always thought you'd be good in the sack".
