Quote: Make it uncomfortable for the OW to keep up her fantasy and help her get closer to the door. Has your D4 visited daddy lately at the office? Does her artwork (pictures of her family) hang on his wall? What about getting a portrait taken of his girls and framing it for his office - to be seen prominently by all who enter. I know my kids love to visit daddy and have given him photos and drawings, etc.
What a bunch of schemers! I love it--fight fire with a blow torch. BTW, if XOW is an employee of a company you are vested in....can't you treat her like she is....well, um, your be-otch?
"Miss..(mispronounce her name on purpose), run down to the corner and get our D4 an apple juice while she visits with daddy". Make sure you look down your nose at her & throw a few dollars on her desk.
Oh, hey, here's a good one: In the interest of keeping the excitement in your M, go alone to H's work wearing nothing but Victoria's Secret under your raincoat. Lock the office door and show your H the alternative uses for his desk and office chair. Enjoy yourself LOUDLY (think of Meg Ryan in When Harry met Sally).