Looks and smells like projection....

She has found a way to justify her EA with another man...

That way she doesn't have to feel the guilt...

I have (finally) learned they will say/do/think anything to make themselves feel ok with what they are doing and it is usually something so over the top you sit there scratching your head thinking WTF?

Probably what you are doing right now smile

Last time I checked God didn't break up families just because someone showed her a different type of attention she wasn't getting from you...

Get the book...Then read it and reread it and post...

Look for Puppy...He is most helpful (as well as the rest of the people I have come into contact with) however he won't sugarcoat it for you so be prepared. wink


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~