Reflecting on the rest of your posts, I would take out the talk of D. I think you should balls out and very clearly, fewer words express what you want to DO and of course ask for her input (but minimal).
I wouldn't have wanted a litany of ideas or instructions. Just to know that the game had changed, that H was done with f'ing around and was ready to lead.
You lost me here A&K, Not sure what you mean.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.