Hi Optimist. Just caught up on your thread and thought I would lend you some support after all you have done for me. Man, what a roller coaster ride you are on! I agree with making your mark at H's office. Make it uncomfortable for the OW to keep up her fantasy and help her get closer to the door. Has your D4 visited daddy lately at the office? Does her artwork (pictures of her family) hang on his wall? What about getting a portrait taken of his girls and framing it for his office - to be seen prominently by all who enter. I know my kids love to visit daddy and have given him photos and drawings, etc.

As you tell me often, keep up your PMA. Take a deep breath and tell yourself that this too shall pass when something is bugging you. And don't dwell on things out of your control - it will make you wacky! (or more wacky than usual LOL!) I would add something in German, but don't want to get that started again!

Take my advice - demolishing a wall is a great stress reliever!

Enjoy the fondue - I love strawberries and chocolate!


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