Thinker- It kills me that these WAWs are so shut down...I was there but I wanted a Thinker...if she doesn't appreciate this, someone will. I know that is not where you are at but don't be afraid to be you and lead. It is not your responsibility anymore if she hops on board. You know this is your bottom line, you expressed that (good for you!!!) now, you lay out the first planks of the bridge back to you...

Clear, steady, unflinching...I know you can do this.