Thought I would post on my own thread, since my hi-fly'in buddy T pointed out that I have spent more time on op's than my own, lol.
Things are still mostly positive between H and I. We encounter a rough spot now and then, but nothing serious. The economy and his lack of work are pretty much the worst things that we are dealing with now, and we are dealing with them together. I would choose that over the OW and all that happened last year, any time.
I suffer from occasional waves of sadness, and a little insecurity. I try to stay busy and I am always counting my blessings. This time last year I could not go a day without crying. Now I can make it almost 2 weeks.
So many things have changed...but I know that I am exactly where I am meant to be.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.