Yes, it is. Please be careful in this regard, Alex.
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Yes, it's a tightrope. I don't want them to be alienated from their mother, but I CAN'T have them believing I did something so bad that it led to W choosing D...
Alex- I will discuss this with my T today and I will chime in if I get any insight (though it is first visit so may not get too far).