Yes, thank you. I used your response too. I told her if she wanted to talk about D and R that we could do it at our next MC appointment.
Steve-
Except for two episodes: one when I found out about the affair, and one two weeks ago when I finally allowed myself to get angry and deal with the affair. I haven't beat her up about it.
I only mentioned one time to her that: "By the way, in the event of an affair, _________ courts don't give alimony".
That's it.
I did find out yesterday that she was contacting attorney's trying to set up a consultation. I think that is why she brought it up yesterday. So she could feel comfortable that she would get enough alimony to be comfortable.
After our R/D talk last night, I guess she went to bed.
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms
