Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

One addition to # 4

- I would like to start, in small ways, proactively acting like a couple again. I would like each of us to make out a list of small things that the other person can do, as gifts, and that would make us happy. You make out a list of small things I can do for you. I'll make out a list of things that would make me happy if you did them for me. We'll exchange the lists and commit to doing several of them per day.

Note: I have tried this before. Her response was "I don't want you do anything to make me happy." I don't want that from you, so I'm not going to make a list.