Braveheart, Welcome aboard. Just keep posting to get help and post to others you can relate to. The more info the better about your sitch helps. Each of us here "knows" what we know. You have to filter and discern what advice might work and fits your values. Where is your wife living now? With who?
Do you have a lawyer?
How are bills split now? It's not as cut and dry 50/50 like your wife thinks.
Why are you leaving the house on alternate weekends and letting your wife tell you to leave?
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I don’t know who I‘am , I’ve taken care of everybody for so long.
Do you understand what she is telling you? How does your wife feel cared for?
What do your phone bills tell you now?
Read up on boundaries, MLC, EA, and The Five Languages. You can handle it. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
