neil, are you reading all of our responses? I have given you several suggestions of "what to say" about the kicking out of bed thing and about the alimony/affair issue.
I used to work for a divorce attorney as well, so I hope you will go back and read my responses. I don't want to bother to keep typing them out if you aren't reading them.
DQ
No, it certainly doesn't seem like he's listening, does it.