I appreciate everyone's advice:

- I know the I'll kill myself stuff is not normal, sounds like a cry for help. I told her if she ever did that again I would call 911.

This morning before she went to work it started all over again. It was pretty bad.

She again asked about not bringing in the affair--begged me, got angry, etc.

Said how sorry she was about the affair, but she doesn't deserve to be left penniless.

Said she wanted to rip out her vag*** and brea***. Blamed OM, blamed me.

Then (and this gets weird) initiated sex with me. I scheduled another phone coaching session today. I don't know how to handle all this.

I know I am going to continue to face the "why can't you just agree to not bring up the affair in court" question from her.

I am also going to face a MC next week who is going to recommend a "collaborative divorce"

Ugh!

Last edited by lowneil; 07/16/09 03:26 PM.
Me 38 / W 37
M 14 yrs
S 11/S8
First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA
Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA
Same House
Separate Rooms