Hi Optimist - Wanted to thank you for posting on my thread. Just scanning your thread - have to get a little work done today - it sounds like you are doing very well.
Do you and your H work in the same office?
Take care ~
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche