1 - No blaming her, show her the what you have learned and how you are taking responsibility
2- Show her how you are responsible for your own happiness and how you are doing it. Let her know you want her to be happy, if she can't be happy with you then that is fine you will thrive anyway (detach from outcomes)
3- Show her how and why you are committed to working on the R.
4- Be very clear on what you want. Let her know action will be taken now.
You will earn respect by leading. She will find this attractive even if she doesn't show you, she will probably test you on your resolve here.
This would have had me back in my M when I was all but gone...
No guarantees on your W Thinker but in MY heart that was what I wanted...
