Think, Call the meeting to order, your wife isn't going to do it. Spell out the boundaries, what you need to happen by her to go forward and what she needs from you. You did all that self-growth, learning and loving yourself to get to this point. Be clear about what you want then draft a plan. You have to be logical but speak to her emotions. You cannot let her emotions overwhelm or cloud the issues. State what you have decided you want. Be prepared for the conversation to get emotional. If it gets heated you need a fall back position. "This dialouge is no longer productive with us this upset I am going to stop and we can discuss this again later." (Put it in Thinkspeak) Time to lead brother. You can handle it. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.