John - Give me some credit, China is not SE Asia.

Maybe it is the eyes or the accent. There is something exotic that really seems to get my attention. My coworker agrees with my preferences and has even said that if he had to do over, he would most definitely strive to meet a Japanese lady.

As I was warming up for my golf lesson yesterday, I noticed the student my instructor had before me was a 20 something, very hot and athletic looking asian gal - very distracting for my warm up swings. When he and I started our lesson, I joked with him that an old middle age guy must be quite a let down from his prior lesson. He laughed and joked back that it is what is inside that counts and that I was a nice guy to teach.

As we were doing some putting drills and game (par 3,4,5), I mentioned that my serious R's had all been with asian gals and he said "who wouldn't want that"?

So I know that when I am out and about and see asian ladys, they tend to get my subconcious attention more. I resign myself as destined to be part of the Joy Luck Club and I like it.

I guess that I am an asian lesbian trapped in the body of a white boy.