Thought I would respond to your question over on Neal's thread here.

I knew she was breaking down because over her confusion because she was telling me how she did not know what to do while she was loosing it. I just held her, she then said, should we just give it 6 months and see how it goes because she knew I would eventually go back to the same ole Burt.

I said, do not give me a time limit, I have changed for myself, I never want to go back to the old me, if you give me a time limit, that means I just have to last until that time, then I can go back. So, there are no time limits, if you see that I have slipped back into the old me, then that is on me.

Burt