I'm right at about two years with a live-in. I understand....
One of the things I have learned in that is....
We cannot be all show all the time, but one of the best things we can do is to process things differently than we used to.
It is the combination of the good energy and the bad energy..
I have found that it is Okay to be down, but how I handle that makes the difference....
Now ? I just smile and say that yes there is something bothering me, NO, I'm not ready to talk about it yet, but when I am, you will be the first to know....
Then go about my business until I am ready.....
I collect my thoughts, channel what is relavant to me, then open up instead of holding it in....
Funny how sometimes, things look different a good nights sleep later....
Don't be a doormat...just choose your battles wisely....
