Oh, add my H to the wimp and coward category. He is rehashing last year...but that is for my thread.
I've been thinking about you and the phrsae, strike while the iron is cold keeps coming to mind. You need to cool off a few days before you do anything. Are you justified in chewing his head off, sure, but could you possible regret it a few days later, yup.
Think of some calm ways you can get your point across, without being angry, calm, matter of fact. Maybe go somewhere the two of you and discuss this. Have some points ready that you want to get across. Actions you need from him in a timetable that would convince you that he is really working on it. Make the statements about you, what you need from him.
But not right now, especially if he is in a pissy mood. Ignore him enjoy the vagina monolagues, they were great!