Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[kissak]

Sanderika,

I know that I am never far from my H's thoughts. He thinks about me alot. He texts me through out the day just to say hey, or asks what Im doing. He wishes me a good morning and good nights, and even to have a good day. He looks at my MYspc page quite often, even though its blocked just to see my status and somedays even comments on it by asking something pertaining to it, just to get me to talk about it...I dont get it.

If you want out of something, why not just walk away and move on?

But the thing with my H is that I cant seem to carry on conversations that well with him....its like we have nothing talk about anymore because he doesnt share too much with me anymore.

He did have a talk with our son about quiting tkd classes. H told son that he can just take this week off because there was no classes anyway and that he would go back next week! My son told me this in front of H and all I could say was that if he hasnt liked it after taking it for 2 years, a week is going to do nothing...he took off longer than that during baseball season. My H just looked at me like that was his decision.

I hate to tell him, but our son is not going back if he doesnt want to. I just dont know how to say it....If infuriates me to think that HE is going to have final say here....or he thinks he is...Well, I really wanna tell him that he does NOT live with us anymore, he is NOT the man of the house anymore, so he will not have final say in this. He has given his opinion and i have given mine and I think it should be left up to our son...it is something for him, so why shouldnt he have the choice?

Now, I just have to figure out how to tell him in a nice way that will keep the peace within. Any suggestions?

He did text me this morning to wish me a good morning, but I didnt answer because I was still asleep...so he called me about 30 min later to see why I didnt answer, he didnt know if I had overslept. Wanted me to tell the kids he loved them.

Why does he do this? Its so confusing to me.