And you know what else sucks....as long as we are keeping a list? The fact that boys don't want to be with her isn't any kind of joy to you. It hurts you and the person who needs to see that reaction to really make the biggest impact probably never will and you CANNOT tell her about that. She'll think you're lying or just won't want to believe it. Just hang in there CIPA. She's going to get close, then pull back. Get close then pull back. I prefer the tango.....but I'm really good at this one too. If it makes you feel better my H has had fewer backlashes lately....