Just a thought... they don't have the "words" we do. So, knowing he knows what kind of Dad/person you are, yet verbalizing that Dad did something wrong; he probably can't put his arms around the idea of you actually doing something that wrong to make Mom not want to give him another chance. And, I'm sorry, but he didn't come up with that on his own. He's HEARD it. He's repeating.
Also, I'm an hour west of ORD. I was just razzin' you guys. I think it's awesome you got together and did ManStuff (so long as it is not ManScaping!LOL). It's so healthy!
Be good, and keep your chin up!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.