I took too long to hit enter on my last post. She asked about counseling. Maybe that WAS a kick in the pants. My W was dead set against working on the M until I took a stand with dividing the house and custody. I didn't back down when she said she wanted the kids, etc. 2 days later, she agreed to Retro.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.