Thinker, I completely understand your anger and frustration. It doesn't look like she is committed to working on the M. I think that you didn't have much of a choice in confronting her about her lack of commitment. 8 months of limbo is a long time. I don't really have any advice, but I think if I were in your position (which I may be soon) I think I might have done the same thing. Let us know what happens. Maybe this will be a kick in the pants for her.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.