Thinker,
I completely understand your anger and frustration. It doesn't look like she is committed to working on the M. I think that you didn't have much of a choice in confronting her about her lack of commitment. 8 months of limbo is a long time. I don't really have any advice, but I think if I were in your position (which I may be soon) I think I might have done the same thing.
Let us know what happens. Maybe this will be a kick in the pants for her.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.