YES, I think so too. But you were giving it till Christmas. What changed? I know for me just the darn Patience thing and the fact that she is there, but if you can make it into a sort of, I don't want to say game but you do in some ways have an opportunity to 'rub her face in it'!

I mean as long as you can count on him to back you gives you some options that I am sure you would be able to come up with ideas to take advantage of!!

I also think David is a wimp and a coward. Ok, maybe those words are a little strong. Definitely indecisive and procrastinating! I just keep thinking of all the things I DO like about him and hoping he will grow in the other areas or maybe I will come to understand him better and am totally wrong! Probably a combination of the two!

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"