Rats! I had written the most inspired and lengthy post to answer your prior one and my partner deleted it before I finished posting. My luck! I hope he did not read it??

Well, I will give it some time and space tonight (got to work anyway) but I am not even sure he wants to see things as clearly as everybody else does. Even my SIL (his only sister and nearly his only living relative) thinks he is a whimp and a coward and I am stupid for bearing with it for so long. And my mother's pov is unprintable!

I sometimes fear he is some kind of cakeman. Or that my SIL's significant other is right and H is unconsciously trying to recreate his childhood home situation, where his mother and grandmother competed unceasantly for the kids love and attention.

Anyway, I am working until 7 pm tonight and then we'll see what happens. That woman has to go one way or the other!

"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little" Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"