What's your goals? I don't see how calling her a liar and ho would help you further them? I assume you either are open to reconciliation or if not, at least want to have a decent co-parenting relationship? I don't think those kind of comments will get you there. But I had a time or 2 when I acted like that, too. My feeling is it makes it easier for your W to detach and justify her behaviors when you treat her like that.
Karen
Well, for some reason it seems to have made her start acting nicer. For the short term anyway. Especially since she makes up stupid allegations of rape, abuse, etc. that fall apart under questioning and I'm not supposed to feel anything?
I think what kicked off my desire for the conversation was reviewing her deposition transcript and noticing how full of crap she was on virtually every topic beyond "What is your name and address?"
That part of the "disparaging" was about 2% of the total conversation. Most of the conversation I was discussing the kids, etc.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
