I think your wife needs to go on anti-depressants and some anti-anxiety medication ASAP. Is there someone you know who can monitor her behavior while you are at work? She seems very confused on how to deal with the consequences of her actions and having a "nervous breakdown".
this is your question from your first post, after busting your wife in an affair:
Originally Posted By: lowneil
Any ideas on how I can get her to realize that our M is worth trying to fix?
Why are you not angry? do you consider this just a mistake? Steve