Last night ended up being a freaking nightmare. A four hour long episode of her begging me to let her go and not bring up her affair during the divorce.
There was yelling, sobbing, begging pleading..you name it, it happened. Once she begged me to make love to her because sex was all she had to offer. She said she would end up having to sell her body because that was all she had. She even said she was thinking about killing herself (not the first time she has said it. Usually when she wants attention)
She said as she sobbed she would have to do the following w/o alimony:
-have to live with her dad -walk to work -couldn't afford health insurance -couldn't afford a car -car insurance -no retirement
etc....
She said she hated O/M for doing this. She said she shouldn't be punished for the rest of her life for one mistake that lasted 3 months out of 18 years..
I hope you get the picture. I think this is typical of her. She wants her way and she is going to pitch a hell of a fit until she gets it.
I am quite sure that we will have another episode in this Soap Opera today.
I just keep telling her I am not going to discuss it.
Advice welcomed
Last edited by lowneil; 07/16/0910:12 AM.
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms
