I`m glad your DS18 is settling. And, your BDing is going well.
Like the way you let H decide on what to do today/tomorrow re his work sitch. I have this with my H-what d`ya think I should do, then blame me for deciding for him so yeah, let them take the lead.
BTW:how`s the spinning going? think I`d find it too tough for me, will stick to walking, bike and er, housework!