it seems the optimist part of you as well as the defensive part go hand in hand and work simultaneously.
he needs to not be there w/ U. being by himself i belive is perhaps the only way that more of those types of realizations will occur. and once enuf of them do occur then the next step of taking action on those realizations.
I like what he had to say and what it very well could mean.
I will throw off the rose colored lenses now and don the amber ones and see if I like the way it looks just the same. lol
