Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

In the middle of the night when H wanted to ML I told him as long as he was emotionally connected to OW and not to me and our M, we would not ML. H asked if I learned to say that from "the website". I responded with "Would you rather I said as long as you are having an affair?" H said no, turned away from me and said "that's just fine".

In the morning H said to me "So, you aren't going to take care of my sexual needs anymore?" I responded "So, you aren't going to take care of my emotional needs anymore?" Again, H asked if I learned that from "the website."

Don't know if I handled it correctly. Also not sure how concerned I should be about his references to this website. H has known about it for a while. I highly doubt H has gotten on it because if he found my posts, he certainly would have said something.