Update

She followed me into the office begging (while she is bawling and sobbing) me not to bring up the affair in court. Still saying I'm not discussing divorce. Am I doing the right thing here. Part of me wants to say fine, I won't bring up the affair. But my coach said we need to hold onto that in case we need it.

Help!!!!


Last edited by lowneil; 07/16/09 01:49 AM.

Me 38 / W 37
M 14 yrs
S 11/S8
First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA
Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA
Same House
Separate Rooms