hey, SMW wanted me to comment, I did talk with B this past weekend. She's doing okay, but just frustrated with her sitch.. go figure huh. who isn't frustrated with her sitch!
anyways, I guess they had some really good times together having fun and stuff. There was even a time when H was with her and OW called and she could clearly tell they were fighting and he was mad at her. However, sometime recently B sets up d17 with a boy they all know and H is furious about it because he doesn't like him, but doesn't have a good reason, but pissed that she let her go out with him when he said no. The boy is 20, goes to church and even said he would bring her home by 11pm when B said to bring her home b4 midnight. sooo, (I am unsure if this happened same day/same convo or not) H said he's not paying for things and B and D needing personal items, and he said he wasn't paying for it. (it might have included rent too, but I can't remember)
anyways, when people are mad, they say stupid things, so we will see how this goes when he settles down and perhaps gets to know this kid.
If she was any younger than 17 and he any older, I would probably be against it, but 3 years isn't too aweful, as I had a crush on a 22 year old when I was 16. Thankfully things didn't happen for us (he went with me to a party but that was all) because he was WAY too old for me obviously.
I was in town when I talked to her and I told her to call me the next morning and I'd take her to get what she needed, but she never called back, so that's the last I have heard anything.
well, keep her in prayers, she can always use them.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."