So dinner didn't go so well. Mainly because she is pissed that I kicked her out of her bedroom and then let her bawl for hours about it.
Went back through all the times I have hurt her since we have been together, how much she hates me.
She said I am meeting with an attorney and we are getting a divorce. She said the only thing I ask is that it is amicable and you don't bring up the affair (she knows she won't get alimony if the affair comes out and I have proof)
So, I tried to actively listen which pissed her off. And, I wouldn't agree to not bringing up the affair in court. I just said "I'm really sorry that you want a divorce, I want to work on our marriage and I refuse to participate in this divorce talk"
That sort of threw her over the edge, so I told her I needed to get some work done.
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms