Well most horrible day. The court dropped the protective order on my D but only allowed 12 hours of visits on Saturdays. They kept it up on my wife, and now I have to pay spousal support, and obviously child support. This means I'm broken completely financially, and will have to quit paying bills just to pay my wife. This makes no sense to me cause She make nearly as much as I do. I guess there will be no DB'ing here now, she painted me as a monster! I don't understand, either shes crazy enough to believe her own lies or she just wants to maintain separation at ALL costs, even our D's welfare. I still love her and that's whats sad here. I only thought I was down before. I cant believe this.