HI twin, was away for the weekend. I was happy to read your posts. Love the red lipstick hehehehe.
As for trying to act as if nothing happened, well, I think it's a standart procedure after the affair - at least for a big percentage of people. MIne did that... twice of course one for each affair.
First one I gave him space, didn't push much conversation past what we really needed to talk and decided to let it go at that. This time I wasn't going to let it happen again. I am giving him plenty of time between conversation but he has to owe to whatever he did, not just pretend it didn't happen. Is this any better ? Don't know, but hey I'm trying ot be original here
No, really I think I decided to do it because I'm wondering if the fact that I let it go the first time had in any way something to do with it happening again. Regardless I'm not pushing it all at once and right now.. I'm going slowly.
Hugsies
P.S. Still have to go out tonight until 10pm might only come back here tomorrow depending on how sleepy i am when I get home.
nightshade


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