First of all, you have to calm down.

You can't control what she's doing. Going back is probably going to make the sitch worse.

Do you think she will take the kids? It's probably illegal if she does so.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER