I think it just speaks volumes about the type of relationship you each have with them. You see their 'issues" and help them cope the best way possible where as your H chooses to wear blinders in hopes that the issues will go away.

I am sure that they know you both love them but I think when it comes to support, they will come to you. When it comes to problems they may have you have always seen the big picture and not just what you wanted to see.

They are lucky to have you.

kat


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