I have to say I'm in complete agreement with Sara.

The more distance and separate time with the kids you can get in this situation, the less confusion for the kids.

You and your kids deserve to have contentment, happiness, and calm.

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!